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NOTE:  This post was originally published on my previous blog, Body Image Rehab.

Young Woman Looking in a MirrorI have written a number of posts on the topic of body image, but today I’d like to take a step back to discuss the concept of body image in general and how it may be measured. Included are links to helpful online resources, including some body image assessments.

Once we have a baseline measurement of our current body image, it will be easier to check back later in the year to see how we’re progressing. Future posts will focus on concepts and exercises for improving the way we view and experience our bodies.

First, A Definition…

We all have a general idea of what is meant by the term “body image,” but I thought it might be helpful to start with an objective definition. The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines body image as follows:

a subjective picture of one’s own physical appearance established both by self-observation and by noting the reactions of others

More important than the definition of body image are our individual experiences and perception of this concept. I found an interesting quiz related to body image on the National Organization for Women’s (NOW) website (2018 update – quiz no longer available).  This quiz tests knowledge of societal trends related to body image, dieting, eating disorders, and related concepts. While I consider myself to be fairly knowledgeable about these topics, I was only able to answer 6 of the 10 questions correctly.  I think I didn’t want to believe things had gotten as bad as they have!

Body Dissatisfaction is Now the Norm

According to the NOW quiz, 80% of U.S. Women are dissatisfied with their appearance! NOW attributes this astronomical statistic to the unrealistic beauty standard promoted by the media, fashion, cosmetics and diet industries.  It is very difficult for any woman to live up to the societal ideals for what her body should look like, which often leads to a negative body image. I know that when I compare myself to the actresses and models I see on TV and in magazines and movies, I find myself “lacking.”

One surprising fact mentioned by NOW is that the average fashion model weighs 41% less than the typical American women. Just 20 years ago, the differential was only 8%!  Sure, part of the change can be attributed to the rise in obesity in this country, but I believe there are other factors at play.  After all, if you compare the “supermodels” of today with those of the 80s and early 90s, you’ll notice that today’s models are dramatically thinner. I discuss this shift in my post, “Just What IS Plus-Sized?”

Some Body Image Assessments

I found a few good online self-assessments for body image and took them today.  Below I share the links for these tests, as well as my scores:

Netdoctor – How Good is Your Body Image (My Score =38, test no longer available)

Summary: You have a poor body image that is placing major restrictions on your willingness to engage in the day-to-day tasks of everyday life, destroying your ability to have fun, and denting your self-esteem in a very big way. I wonder if you have been aware of this until now – it is so much easier just to avoid doing the things that give us anxiety.

You may not have a perfect body, indeed your body may be very far from perfect, however, your body has become your enemy and you are very self-absorbed. You are probably unaware that your feelings are not an accurate reflection of how you really are or of how other people see you.

Bodywise Body Image Quiz (My Score=49)

Summary: If your total is greater than 30, you may have some body image issues that are affecting your self esteem and your behaviors. Try and be more aware of your attitudes, read about body image, talk with a professional if necessary. Hating your body won’t change it, but learning to accept it will help you feel a lot better!

Body Image Self-Assessment (My Score=Moderately Dissatisfied)

No Summary Provided.

Queendom – The Body Image Test (My Score=20)

Summary: You’re not overjoyed with your physical appearance – to put it lightly. You feel quite uncomfortable in situations where you have to reveal a little skin, and likely go out of your way to avoid them altogether. You feel inadequate when you compare yourself to others, and may even go to extreme lengths (plastic surgery, severe dieting) to change the way you look. What it boils down to is this: the negative view you have of your looks is putting a serious damper on the way you live.

We Have a Baseline…

As you can see, the results vary depending upon the test, as each test includes different types of questions.  I took many more tests than what I have posted.  I only included the measurements I felt were most useful and accurate.  I intend to re-take these assessments in several months to see how my body image has changed. My expectation is that since I am making a concerted effort to improve the way I feel about my body, my scores will improve as time goes on.

I hope that the resources presented in this post are helpful to you in providing basic information about body image, societal trends, and a baseline for your current body image.

Closing Quotes

I close with a few positive quotes related to body image and self-esteem:

“I used to look in the mirror and feel shame; I look in the mirror now and absolutely love myself.” – Drew Barrymore

“Instead of spending life’s precious energy asking ‘Is my butt too big?’ spend it asking ‘Is my life too small?’“ – Katherine Brown

“Where bodies are concerned, there is no norm.  Because we are all different! Which is what makes us REAL.  And celebrating that difference is what positive body image is about.” – Dr. Samantha Thomas

“Peace, love, hope and confidence are the ingredients to good body image.” – Dr. Vivian Mehan

8 thoughts on “How is YOUR Body Image?

  1. Elaine says:

    I’m happy that you’ve resumed blogging! Your posts are always thoughtful and full of great resources. This post about body image reminded me of a conversation between Eve Ensler (“The Vagina Monologues”) and a Masai women; if you google “ love your tree”, there are lots of articles and videos that reference this.

    1. Debbie Roes says:

      Thank you, Elaine! I’m glad you like my posts. This one is actually a very old one that I meant to just edit but ended up republishing! No big deal, but it wasn’t my intent… Thank you for mentioning the “love your tree” reference. I found this short video about it and I love the message: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UEUsbLNAfW0 It’s SO powerful! I would love to be able to adopt that attitude about my body, as I have some pretty extreme body image issues that have worsened in menopause. We can learn so much from women in other cultures!

  2. Tonya says:

    I took a few of the tests and I scored 25 on the Bodywise one, great on the 2nd one, and 55 on the Queendom test which said generally happy with occasional flashes of insecurity. Overall I’d say they are accurate. I know I’m overweight. I could point out the things I’d like to be different, but I also haven’t been unhappy enough to make a huge lifestyle change to make it happen. I’ll look at pictures and think I look really bad in them sometimes and feel fat when an item of clothing doesn’t look good on me anymore. Mostly though I’m fine. There aren’t things I won’t do because of weight. I don’t think I’m less worthy than someone slimmer. On the flip side of that I didn’t feel that I was superior to anyone else when I was the thin one. With age I think the need to be critical to myself has started to lessen.

    1. Debbie Roes says:

      Thanks for sharing your scores and thoughts, Tonya! As I mentioned to Elaine above, this is actually a very old post (from one of my earlier blogs) that I was editing and didn’t mean to re-publish. But since I DID re-publish it, I decided to re-take those same two quizzes that you took just to see how my scores compare to 2010 (when I originally took the tests and wrote the post). As I suspected, I scored A LOT worse than you did 😦 I got 61 on the Bodywise test (above 30 indicates body image issues) and 25 on the Queendom test (not overjoyed with your physical appearance, to put it lightly). So I haven’t made much progress in 8 years and am probably worse off. I honestly don’t know what to do about it, though, as this has been a big issue for me for years. This post and many others came from a blog I had for a while called “Body Image Rehab,” which I started as a way to try to improve my body image. Writing about body image helped to increase my awareness, but it didn’t really help in other respects. I think it’s great that you are less critical of yourself now than when you were younger. I wish I could say the same, but I hope I will be able to join you in that camp one day…

      1. Tonya says:

        Debbie I hope you can too. There’s plenty of room for you here.

        1. Debbie Roes says:

          Thank you, Tonya! xo

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